17 Moses’ father-in-law replied, “What you are doing is not good. 18 You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone. 19 Listen now to me and I will give you some advice, and may God be with you. You must be the people’s representative before God and bring their disputes to him. 20 Teach them his decrees and instructions, and show them the way they are to live and how they are to behave. 21 But select capable men from all the people—men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain—and appoint them as officials over thousands, hundreds, fifties and tens. 22 Have them serve as judges for the people at all times, but have them bring every difficult case to you; the simple cases they can decide themselves. That will make your load lighter, because they will share it with you. 23 If you do this and God so commands, you will be able to stand the strain, and all these people will go home satisfied.” (Exodus 18)Jethro was a wise man. When a person tries to do too much on their own, especially in leadership positions, they and the people around them suffer. I have seen this very clearly in my own life when I feel overwhelmed.
This winter, I have been learning to delegate. Raúl has been working with me for two years now, and slowly but surely I am learning how to let go of some things and let him do them. Starting in January 2020, Teresa joined the Church Friendship team as well, and I am learning a whole new level of delegation.
Teresa was a Cohort of Missioner participant in Costa Rica from 2018-2019. She is from Chinandega, Nicaragua and found out about the Cohort program by being a leader for IMPACT clubs. Another Cohort graduate, Nereyda, is coordinating IMPACT clubs and recommended the Cohort experience to Teresa. She left Nicaragua to serve in Costa Rica for a year. When she came back to Nicaragua in July 2019, Resonate started the process of trying to get a US visa for Teresa to be part of a pilot Cohort program in Detroit. (For those of you who don't know, I started in Nicaragua as a volunteer in the Cohort of Missioners program, called Caminantes in Spanish. You can learn more about the Cohort watching This Video.) Resonate asked the Nehemiah Center to help vouch for Teresa and see if there could be a job for her when she came back to Nicaragua after being in Michigan, so I started getting to know her. We invited her to some prayer meetings in Chinandega and the Nehemiah Center's 20th anniversary celebration. Unfortunately, Teresa's visa was denied so she didn't go to the United States in January as planned. After observing her at these events, we asked if she would like to volunteer with the Nehemiah Center in the Church Friendship program, and she agreed. She started with us at the beginning of January 2020.
Teresa is a very personable, joyful person who is interested in learning. She seems to be able to strike up a conversation and start laughing within the first five minutes with most people she talks to. She speaks English and was teaching beginner English classes to kids in Costa Rica as a Caminante. As we worked with her, Raúl and I observed that Teresa is very teachable. When we gave her feedback, she tried to put it into practice right away. Teresa was always willing to run errands, help translate, call to confirm reservations and even lead the teams on their tourist days so Raúl and I could have a break. She started learning both the financial part of teams (which Raúl usually takes care of) and the coordinating and translating (which I mostly do).
It has been a challenge for me to take the time to explain (and explain again) what needs to be done and how to do it. I feel like it takes longer than if I were to do it myself. However, I know that this is part of the process and good for character formation in Teresa as well as myself. She has been a huge help. Together with her and Raúl, we led four teams in 8 weeks and participated in other Nehemiah Center activities, and I didn't shout at administrative staff or break down crying during that whole time.
Jethro was right. Trying to do it all wears a person out. Even though delegating takes more work initially, it helps alleviate the strain and all the people go home satisfied. I'm thankful for Teresa helping bear the load over these past few months! We will see what the next months bring. Pray for Teresa and the Nehemiah Center as they explore options for the future.